Eagerly Waiting Easter Morn

Sure, we all are, right? It is not just because our family give up meat, and we all really want meat, like really want meat right now. Nope, that is not it. But, that is a part of it.

When Lent started, it was winter in Chicago. There was in insane amount of snow on the ground, and it was cold, really cold. The skies were grey and people were miserable. It all seemed appropriate for Lent. But, now, it is warm, it is green, is is lovely. But, our hearts and souls are still in winter, we are cold and frozen. That is how Lent feels, like a long cold winter. We still say the Angelus all through Lent, which harkens back to winter, to the Nativity.

I crave the warmth of Easter. I ling for the Regina Coeli. I caught myself singing it for prayer the other day, and it literally hurt to stop. "O, Queen Of Heaven, Be Joyful". Be Joyful. Yes, Lent is a time of reserved joy, but it is also a time of self-examination, and that, at least for me, is not joyful. I do not like what I find, I find a perpetually witntery heart. I find coldness, and darkness. But, I rid it through penance, did I mention I really want a steak? I rid it through sacrifice and confession. But, the season asks me to wait, to hold back, to savor the last moments of self-reflection and to find those last things that I need to remove, before I can truly feel the joy of Easter.

I see hints of flowers outside, but the sky is still grey, just as there is a hint of brightness in my soul, but still there is more room for light.

Not the brightest bulb sometimes

Bless Me Father, for I am ultra slow to learn and quite dense in huge head. Thank goodness that is not an actual sin, because I have enough to worry about. That being said, some people understand things the first time they hear it, and others need blinky flashy lights and a kick in the pants to pay attention. I am the latter far too often. 

Take for example a litttle instance I had the past two days. For work, I went to a training on avoiding compassion fatigue, it goes with my nature of work. Whilest at said training with my fellow home visitnig doulas, we discussed how to be happier and how to take care of one self. The presenter is a seminarian in Native American religous studies. Yep, I go to hippie training. Regularly. With hippies, seriously, long skirts, dreads, barefooted, vegan, birth godesses. I take most of these trainings with a grain of salt, and a glass of wine when I get home. This time, was different. I am just weeks away from serious burn-out, so I tried to listen. And, blinky lights were going off all around me.

Why? What did hippie birthy speaker do? She told us to be thankful, to examine our day each evening, heck, she even said use the examen, to live a plan of life, to offer our day, to confide in one person who can hold you accountable, to be still and listen to the higher power, and to praise him (she might have said her, hippie, remember). It all sounded so familiar to my Catholic ears, and to my Catholic soul. It should, I've been hearing it for years at days of recollection, in books, from priests in the confessional and from good holy women. And I lived it, well, for many years. Not of late though. 

I thought that I could simplify, I could do the bare minimum, that it was too strict for my hippie doula self. And, like many things, I was wrong. But, I did not realize I was wrong until this workshop. I realized how much I need my plan of life, my examen, my director, etc. Heck, I need it more now that I am in a compassion based field. But, it never crossed my mind I needed it to be happy. I needed hippie barefoot lady to remind me of the treaure I hold in these things. 

So, I am not the brightest bulb sometimes, but, the one thing she did not address was the need for forgiveness when we fail, and the ability to begin again. So, the confessional and I have a date, as does my delibrate efforts to order my life and prayer. And then, the happiness and peace will return.